Warning: This blog is written by a teacher (and an opinionated one, at that), not a doctor.
I am not a handwriting expert. Far from it. I think I even went to handwriting summer school one year. I just thought this information was too important not to pass it along.
Some of you may know that the world of education is always changing its mind. For a long time, phonics was all the rage. Then it was whole language. Now it's back to phonics. If you don't know the difference, it's OK, because you're reading this. If you can't read this, then we probably need to talk.
We also see trends in education because of what is happening in the culture around us. For example, one of the third grade reading assessments we give is about beavers. The kids have to read and comprehend a fictional story about a beaver family. About 5 years ago, kids could care less about the story. Then, The Lion, the Witch & The Wardrobe came out in movie form and boom! just like that, kids love the beaver family story!
Sometimes culture has a negative impact on our education system. Sadly, even in the 6.5 years I've been teaching, the number of kids with divorced parents has skyrocketed. This equates to a big challenge for teachers. Who do you call when the child is sick? in trouble? Who gets the report card? Often times the parents have had such a messy divorce, they don't communicate with each other, making for a sad situation for the child(ren).
But I digress. The point of this blog was not to complain about the status of society or our education system. What is the point, you ask? Well, read on!
We are seeing a new trend in education. In the past few years doctors have instructed mothers of infants to place children on their backs--not their stomachs--when they sleep. They have also been told to eliminate small toys and objects from their reach. Kids have also been more "contained" in car seats, chairs, or simply laying on their back. Take a look the next time you are in a restaurant--kids are sitting in their car seat, staring at the ceiling. Not an overly stimulating view. What they are often staring at are flashing lights and whirling objects, placed there to keep them occupied.
But, I'm getting a bit off topic again. All of these things are good--lowering the risk of SIDS, choking and eliminating other potential hazards from their reach are good. Listen to your doctor!
However, I do want to tell you about the flip side. This is where the education part comes in. Our occupational therapist informed our teachers this week that America is in the middle of an epidemic. A pandemic, even. Kids can't write. It's not that their teachers didn't teach them. It's not even that the students didn't learn how to form the letters. They can't write because they are physically incapable of doing it.
Because babies are not placed on their stomachs for long periods of time, they never develop the shoulder muscles to hold themselves up. Therefore, they do not have the muscles in their arms to hold a pencil properly.
Because babies do not play with small objects like blocks or clothes pins, they do not develop the dexterity and strength to stabilize the pencil in their hand.
Because babies are often limited to a car seat or laying on their backs for long periods of time, they don't fully develop the neck muscles that babies in the past had from looking around (when they were being carried around on mom's hip for most of the day). These neck muscles also (amazingly enough) are needed for handwriting and other simple tasks.
Kids literally do not have the ability to write. It's quite sad, actually, when they get to first or even second--and now, even third grade--and they can't hold their pencil properly. And it's not for lack of trying, or for lack of teaching.
Anyway, I don't think that doctors or parents mean any harm in how they are raising their children. Quite the opposite, I think they mean well for their children and I know I never would have related any of the above practices to handwriting.
Now that I've thoroughly caused alarm and some mass-hysteria among mothers of infants or young school age children, take a deep breath. Take a minute to relax and keep reading. There's hope. Here's what you can do, if you are so inclined.
1. Have your kids (even at a very young age) lay on their stomachs to watch TV or play a game. They have to prop their heads up on their hands/arms. See how long they can do it. (How long can you do it?)
2. Have them play (well supervised) with smaller objects, like small macaroni noodles. You can take an old plastic tub, punch holes in the lid and then they have to put the macaroni noodles in through the holes.
3. For kids a little bit older (5-7), you can have them hold a cotton ball with their ring & pinkie fingers (against their palm). Then using their thumb, index & middle finger (like a claw), have them pick up small objects (like #2). These are the three fingers they need the most for holding a pen/pencil.
4. For a long time, I was a big proponent of "If the pencil is shorter than your thumb, throw it away". But, our occupational therapist has changed my mind. It's GOOD for kids to practice with tiny pencils & broken crayons. It takes more work and strength and dexterity to hold a small pencil than it does to hold a longer one. So, live on, small pencils!
5. Clothes pins are great. It helps them develop strength in those three fingers mentioned in #3. Have them put clothes pins on and off the edge of their bed sheets or comforter.
6. Don't be afraid to let them use scissors--there are lots of kid-friendly scissors out there and it really helps them to develop fine motor skills. Just don't let them near your new curtains or favorite blanket.
7. Crafts! Crafts! Crafts! Scissors! Glue! Paper! Coloring! Stamping! Painting! Buttons! Snaps! Sewing! It's good for their little fingers and their brains! It's cheap and it's fun! A bit messy, yes, but isn't that what childhood is all about?
I could go on, but I will stop here. Like with all things in education and life, a balanced approach is best. Don't "go to a level 10" (I hear this a lot from Joel), just do a few things here and there to help set your child up for handwriting success. Your child (and their teacher) will thank you for it later.
One more note. Please leave me a comment about this blog if you have any other opinions or information. I would love to have it. I am, after all, just a teacher, not a mom!
8 comments:
I had not heard about this side of the "back to sleep" campaign. I did know of the increase in portacollis (one side of the head is flat because the child only lays on that side of their head) and that children are crawling later because they don't spend as much time on their stomachs. In all my parenting classes they emphasized that the infant carriers (car seats or buckets) should only be used for transporting your child in the car, they are not a designed for children to spend hours in them (outside of the car). I also remember something about that car seats should not be used as beds because of breathing issues while they sleep. In the car on car rides is find just not as a night time bed. Babies are more and more being left in swings or carseats, they need to be held or even placed in a safe place on a blanket on the floor where they can practice looking around, which they can't do in a car seat. They can also work on rolling over and if you place toys and many infant toys are made for small fingers to grasp and are safe, around the blanket your child has things to reach for and look at. Even better is to make it into "tummy time". Meghan hated tummy time she would just put her head down and scream. Ted also hated to spend any time on his tummy, he learned early how to roll over and used to pull himself along with his heels. Rhonda said Ted wore out the heels and Joel the toes. I digress. I used to place Meghan on a boppy (a nursing pillow shaped like a C) and would read to her or I would put her on my lap on her stomach. There are lots of ways to get in tummy time if you are creative. Most doctors recommend a certain amount of tummy time every day. Meghan also hated the swing, her infant car seat or anything like these. She had lots of stomach issues and I think that the position of them irritated her stomach. She loves to write, draw, paint and cut. I would like to add to the keep away from siblings hair as well as curtains. We had a hair cutting incident last week, they decided to cut each others hair, luckily they didn't get much and you can't tell.
Thank you for the suggestions for increasing muscle strength. I have noticed that many of my students have trouble holding a pencil correctly and they can't hold it for long periods of time. I hadn't heard of the connection to back to sleep.
Thanks for bringing up such an important issue. May I pass this information on to other teachers and parents?
Thanks for all the info Ski. I would check with your Occupational Therapist & see what s/he has to say. But, sure, it can't hurt to pass it along. Just be sure parents are checking with their doctor's first. :)
Sarah
Thanks so much for sharing this EXCELLENT information, Sarah! I will be certain to pass it along to the young mothers in my family!!!
Fascinating. I am currently learning more about Montessori and lots of her "work" (for 3 - 5 year olds) emphasizes using the three fingers you mentioned. I hadn't really paid much attention to it - but we have been doing these activities in our little coop. Actually, one of the activities is a putting plastic clips around the edge of a bowl. Another one is dropping popscicle sticks througha hole in a coffee can (I do like the beans idea though). They also encourage working with small items (under supervision) more than any other method I've seen. They teach pouring activities to help students learn about using their wrist - as well as twisting caps on and off. Actually, as you learn the sounds the letters make (they don't focus on learning the alphabet) you trace the sandpaper letters with your index and middle finger. They really emphasize developing the use of the three fingers children use for writing.
The Montesori method turns 100 this year and everywhere I go I feel like there are things that reaffirm her approach to development. This is just another one of those items. Thanks for the heads up and I will continue to allow my son to play with small items (in a safe way) even though others may warn against it.
It's interesting that you mention Montessori (I'm not sure who you are, so let me know!)...I worked in a Montessori kindergarten for 2 years in high school. They do a great job with this specific skill--fine and gross motor skills!
Sarah,
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Thanks, Ski! I was confused...
Hi
I live in London and I find there is a general lack of awareness here about a condition apparently called mild hypetomia which or low muscle tone. It seems it is relatively common common and affects children in different ways. Some may not be able to sit still for long periods of time or cross their legs and in children like my six year old, it affects their general agility and ability to hold a pen. The way in which my six year old writes tires his hand quickly. I had him assessed in Johannesburg where there is a greater awareness of this condition (which is certainly not helped by the treatment of our children as babies as you so accurately described) and as a result there is a great deal of support there from neurophysiotherapists and o.t's but not much is available here. My issue is that my son refuses to participate in any hand strengthening exercises as it somehow seems to undermine his confidence. Push ups and press ups and weights were recommended on a visit in SA but he'll have none of that and refuses to engage in specific fine motor skill tasks using only three fingers - even when he paints he gets control using his fourth finger.(people have used their feet to paint when necessary so I should not mind and he has reasonable control this way - with the correct style he has no control at all). He does however tire easily when writing- his hand literally gets very hot. It also affects his stamina when he runs because he is using he legs a great deal and gets little support from his core muscles. AS a teacher, do you have any suggestions of what I might say to him to encourage these exercises without drawing attention to the fact that we are trying to 'fix something".
Thanks
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